The baby girl arrived 10 weeks ago and she is a treasure.   We have now been to see her several times.   We have also been to the USA to visit our grandson.   Family comes first.   Mum has just celebrated her 80th birthday in Shetland and all of the family, with the exception of Fiona, Ian and Jay in USA, were there to help her enjoy it.   Three parties - even I don't get that.